Solstice Charity

Every year we try to come together as a grove to make a donation to a worthy cause. 

This always sparks discussion as to where our efforts are most needed and where is appropriate to donate. We’ve made mistakes in the past of donating to groups that , shallop we say, end up being less than charitable to their patrons or have hidden religious agendas they mask under a guise of “all inclusiveness”

Either way, this year we decided to donate to a shelter to end homelessness. Adsum House is largely known for its work helping women and children but the global message is to ensure all have a safe home. Their support goes beyond housing people in times of need. They also provide basics to those who move into homes from their facility and help families out over the holidays with toys for children in need.

As a grove we enjoy doing things together and it’s better still when we can help our community. Thank you to everyone who took part this solstice season, I know things can be busy and expensive, it means a lot that you invest in these causes. 

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Alter Décor and Expression

There isn’t really a way to do this right or wrong. There are standards…

Well to the East

Fire to the South

Tree to the West

But apart from that, ADF Druids (and the like) usually decorate their alters in ways that makes them feel connected, happy and spiritual.

You can use seasonal herbs and flora or candles and crafts. Most people incorporate symbols or effigies, but I will tell you my family alter is often quite simple and apart from the well, fire and tree I usually end up decorating it with things I’ve made. I mean, you always want beautiful flowers around Ostara but here in Nova Scotia you would be hard pressed to find the ground though all the snow let along a flower! I tend to make paper flowers ( I love papercraft and I build with intent), we have homemade candles and herbs that we often grew in our yard at some point.

Your alter need not be complex or garish unless you wish it so. Use what represents you and your deities.

If you are looking for inspiration, here are a few ideas:

  • Statuary

  • Precious books

  •  Crystals

  • Ogham

  • Runes

  • Your well, fire and tree representations

  • Incense and holder

  • Candles

  • A tablecloth

  • Herbs

  • Flowers

  • Magical tools of any kind

  • Your chalice

  • Your offering bowl, plain or otherwise

  • Homemade (or lovingly made) crafts

  • Seasonally appropriate colours or figures (eg: reds and browns for Mabon etc.)

This is a very personal process and you should always do what resonates with you and your needs at the time. Be sure to cleanse whatever you place on your alter and always focus your intent as best you can.

Blessed be and happy decorating.

Karen


Finding balance with chaotic thoughts

It’s a deep title for what is going to seem like the trivial topic but here we go.

This year for Halloween Lush and David’s Tea (among others I am sure) have really embraced the New Age Movement and are using it to bolster marketing material. I found myself really bothered by it but I also LOVE me the Halloween cup every year… I’ve collected them all since we got David’s here.

When I visited the David’s Tea site to see “Can’t wait for Samhain? Savor the anticipation with this charming 10-day countdown. “ I was shocked! How could they use my new year and a very special time of year to sell their tea and tea-infused chocolates?! The whole Halloween line is chock-full of this type of marketing.

How insensitive!

How appropriative!

How, nice?

As soon as ai felt myself getting worked up about this I had to take a little step back. I wanted the mug, I knew a bunch of friends who were all saying how much I was going to LOVE this year’s mug and how it was so ME.  As much as I hate the idea of these groups using my religion to sell their products, I admittedly don’t know how many pagans they have on their team. Maybe this does reflect their values more than I know. Moreover, if we normalize Paganism perhaps, we can get closer to green cemeteries, or recognized religious status in our political and vocational lives.

I am not calling this a win; they could have stuck to “can’t wait for Halloween?” or avoided having a Lush Reading day where staff will read your Lush Tarot Cards. But helping people to see these things as normal and similar to other religions can’t be all bad.

This is going to keep happening, and it’s going to happen to more than just Paganism. If the mug isn’t hurting anyone and it’s resonating with someone else, then good.

There is an argument to be made here for buying local and for doing your craft a disservice though tools but that will again come back to a balance. I could write a whole blog (or ten on that topic).  I use my Halloween mugs all year round and they are great conversation starters. I take great pleasure in making my tea in these mugs and people always get a kick out of them.

I bought the mug and I got the Monster Bath Bomb for my toddler. I am not a sellout, this is not a fad, I am a Druid, I am Pagan, I am proud, and I won’t hide it.

Please enjoy your trip through this door, your time spent exploring Paganism will never be wasted.

Blessed be

Karen 

Cernunnos

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A deity of Celtic Mythology and The Grove of Nova Scotia Druids’ patron deity. His name is a translation from various Celtic languages that means “horned one”. He is often depicted as man-like with antlers and hooves. He typically wears a torque (also spelled torc or torq), a semi- circular piece of jewelry often seen throughout Celtic history as a symbol of protection. He is accompanied by a stag, bull, snake or ram. Though his origins can be traced though many cultures he seems to originate in Celtic Mythology with the earliest depictions of him found in Northern Italy in an area which was under Celtic occupation around 400 BC. He is the protector of animals, the lord of animals. A representation of the wild; fertility; life and death and many important lessons that guide us today.

As with most things in Druid culture, the Horned God’s story follows the seasons with the Fall representing his Death, where he lies dormant during the Autumn and Winter and the Spring representing his resurrection where he would impregnate the Mother Goddess which gives wake to all life once again throughout the warmer and summer months. This circular story is thought to be a product of Neo-Paganism and it is believed that earlier celebrations of Cernunnos would have likely been dressing up as the God by adorning animal skins and trying to commune closely with him. Be that as it may, the Animal Lord has always represented Masculine Energy.

Cernunnos is an important part of our culture. He is said to have moved in such a surreal fashion that he was able to walk between the veils (between the land of the living and that of the dead) and he would guide the fallen to pursue a life of happiness and wisdom. He is seen as a prosperous, shielding God. There are stories of Cernunnos being associated with The Winter Stag where he would appear December 21st to those who received gifts and encourage them to give them to the less fortunate.

Unfortunately, as with much of the Pagan culture under which Druidry falls, much of the information supporting this writing is somewhat speculative and pieced together as strong efforts were made by the Christian church to eradicate Pagan Religion. Cernunnos was compared to Satan who at the time was portrayed as having great horns and this lead to families and Groves hiding their effigies and practices. 


Crystals and You

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A few months ago I found myself really drawn to crystals. This had been a part of my exploration when I was young but I had moved on from it and thought it felt juvenile and hokey to me. “Only new age yuppies use crystals” I thought….

After more than a month of pondering, reading, window shopping and continuously telling myself I would “just get over it” I finally went to a shop on the far side of town to get me some rocks….

I brought them back to work (it was a lunch hour) and sat with the stones.

What had I just done?

How could I be so silly?

We didn’t have money for this, there are bills to pay and I am throwing money at bits of rock!? DAMMIT Karen!

I held the weighted stones in my hand and reflected on my purchase. It really wasn’t much and I had been eyeing them for a while. I decided to meditate with the stones in my hand and just embrace that I had done this and, weather it was a good purchase or an impulse buy I was now the owner of a big ol’ piece of Clear Quartz, a small chunk of Bercciated Jasper, and a bit of Smokey Quartz, because I just love black. As I rolled the rocks around in my hand the embarrassment lifted. I thought about the fact that it was kind of nice to feel the smooth and sharp edges, it really kept my focus and helped my mind form wandering.

Over the next few weeks as I would finish up my lunch hour yoga I would grab for my crystals and roll them in my palms. It felt good, I was connecting regularly to my spirituality and these tools were helping me get there. It can be so easy between an office environment and a busy home life to forget about taking time for your mental and spiritual well being. But these crystals helped me get there. No shame.

The moral of my little post here is that you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself. Of course you never want to put your base needs at risk by over indulging in any one pillar of your life but if something resonates with you and you can do it responsibly, don’t feel like you should deny yourself based on past or others perceptions. As with all things in life, you will have need for different tools at difference times. Tools may come and go but the time you put into you and the connection you feel in those moments is everlasting.

Blessed be.

-Karen 

Ár nDraíocht Féin, Grove of Nova Scotia Druids and Isaac Bonewits

We are deeply saddened this day to share the below statement from the Mother Grove of ADF, about our founder – Isaac Bonewits.

In 2018, the late founder of ADF, Isaac Bonewits, was accused of sexually molesting a child. Just recently, allegations have been raised from among our membership that are similar in nature.

The Mother Grove publicly denounces Bonewits’ alleged actions toward children. We cannot and will not abide such actions. Children are our most precious asset, as they represent our future, and we have a sacred duty to protect them from harm, including teaching them about their own soveriegnty. For that reason, we also reaffirm our commitment to creating a culture of consent within ADF. The Mother Grove will work with our Human Services Specialist to create a consistent consent training program.

ADF may have begun as a single tree planted by Isaac, but in the years since, each new member has planted and tended their own tree. Some have chosen to plant a single tree, while others have together planted entire groves. Together, these trees make up the forest of Our Druidry. We stand now together, a forest of trees struggling in the darkness and shadow cast by that first tree.

There comes a time in the life of a grove where such trees must be felled, to allow for the growth and health of those which remain. This is such a time.

To preserve the health of our organization, we must cut out the blight that is Isaac Bonewits’ legacy. We sever the ties both historical and spiritual that bind us to him. For his actions against children, Isaac Bonewits will no longer be named as a beloved ancestor of ADF, nor is he welcome at our sacred fire.

May his memory and his dark actions fade with the rising of the sun.

We pray that those in need of support and healing find that swiftly, members and non-members alike, and remind members that they may reach out to the Members’ Advocate (adf-members-advocate@adf.org) or Human Services Specialist (humanservicespecialist.adf@gmail.com) for support.

Blessings,

The Mother Grove

For those of you who may not know, The Grove of Nova Scotia Druids - is a local Grove/chapter of ADF – an international public pagan “church” dedicated to Druidism. Issac was the founder of our international church - a brilliant academic that laid the foundation for one of the largest organized Neopagan groups today, in a time when Christian dominated societal norms would give us no rights to worship as we choose. BUT Isaac was not alone – we are an organization that is now thousands strong, that has been growing organically for decades, with the dedicated help of hundreds of individuals establishing local and mostly autonomous chapters worldwide. We can not, and should not, try to erase or whitewash the past, but we can and will move forward knowing that we as an organization run solely by volunteers (both internationally and locally) will always do our best to support our faith, our families, and our communities. Unlike the revealed religions such as christianity, the only dogma of our church has always been the Dogma of ArchDruid Fallibility – stating that our leaders are still just people and should never be “worshipped” as perfect or infallible. This is not in any way said to make excuses or brush off criticism for our leaders, but to say we stand firm in the knowledge that the felling of one tree does not ruin the entire forest. While we as a local grove have had no involvement in this decision by the Mother Grove, we put our trust in their hardworking guidance and leadership in these difficult times, and must believe that this decision was not made lightly and was given significant deliberation.

We, as a local grove in Nova Scotia are highly family focused, and have spent a lot of time and effort over the years to carefully craft our bylaws and our codes of conduct. We echo the sentiment that children are both our future and most precious asset, and must be protected to be allowed to be just that – children. We strongly condemn, in no uncertain terms, ANY action that violates the trust and personal sovereignty of children or any vulnerable member of our community. We grieve for both our community and for victims everywhere, and we ask for patience and understanding from both our membership and the wider pagan community to have faith that major discussions around communication, consent culture, and leadership training are happening within our international organization, and have always been a part of our local organization.

Grove leader Milestone

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As groups grow and persist milestones are reached. At this year’s AGM we of the Grove of Nova Scotia Druids experienced another exciting first.

Introducing Karen Larter, the Grove of Nova Scotia Druid’s First Female Grove Leader.

Karen has been a member of the Grove of Nova Scotia Druid’s for a decade and an active member of the pagan community for nearly two. She is a Human Resource professional who is working toward her CPHR designation, mother to a lovely little boy and wife to Brian Later.

Karen is excited about her new responsibility and plans to continue with the Grove’s long-term goals as well as continuing to push for further education and creation of resources for those looking to follow the ADF Druid path.


Samhain

We gathered together this past weekend to celebrate Samhain and the turning of the wheel of the year, as the final harvest should be – with family, friends, feasting and faith. Everyone gathered on Saturday for our annual general meeting, followed by a hearty supper, and then a short trek to “Woodhenge” our private ritual structure in rural Nova Scotia.

A separate ancestor altar was set up, lined with photos and mementos of our honoured dead, in the hopes to build stronger ties and connections to those who have come before us. Our ancient fore-bearers had a significantly different relationship with death and the afterlife than most do today in contemporary North American culture. We seek to better understand what and where we have come from, and express gratitude (or at least some greater understanding) for how it has shaped our lives.

As the year's cycle renews itself in darkness once again, we acknowledge and cherish the blessings of the year. At the same time, we also look for signs and omens of what changes need to be made in our lives. For that reason, the main working in our Samhain ritual was a fire cleansing of things we wish to purge from our lives – whether they be bad habits, negative emotions, or unfavourable circumstances. These things were written by each individual member on paper and tied to a circle of yew, and these circlets were hung on a large wicker man constructed for ritual. After all of the praise offerings were given and omens taken, the wicker man was lit, and we stood as a grove to watch the flames burn the negativity from ourselves as we enter the darkness of the year, the months of both introspection and cozy togetherness.

Our omens for the ritual were as follows:

Omen 1: How Have Our Offerings Been Received?

Onn (Gorse) – A tenacious and vibrant flowering shrub with yellow flowers, heavy in pollen and a strong scent of honey. In the absence of any contradictory signs during ritual, the Gorse is a strong positive omen of acceptance, a joy and abundance of blessings.

Omen 2: What Blessings do the Kindreds Bestow in Return?

Ruis (Elder) – A versatile tree that can easily regrow damaged branches and root rapidly. Similar to the yew, it represents the end in the beginning, and the beginning in the end – extremely fitting for this time of year as the wheel of the year renews itself. As a blessing bestowed, Elder grants us the strength to grow, heal and adapt and guides us to the strength to find the good in life's changes.

I leave you with an ancestor prayer (Slightly adapted) from Rev Michael Dangler, and wish you all a blessed Samhain.

Ancestors! Oh Honoured Dead!

When you were born,

The Earth became your body,
the stone became your bone,
The sea became your blood,
The sun became your eye,
The moon became your mind,
The wind became your breath.

When you passed to the Otherworld,

Your breath became the winds of change,
Your mind became the inspiring moon,
Your eye became the sun’s sweet gaze,
Your blood became the pulsing sea,
Your bone became the steadfast stone,
Your body became the nurturing earth.

When we were born, you did the same for us:

You called forth the earth and rocks;
The sea arose and the sun descended;
The moon shone down and the winds sang.
For those who come after, we shall do as you did for us.
When we are gone, we shall do as you did before.

Ancestors, we honour you


Park cleanup

This weekend we had a fantastic cleanup at a local park. Even though it rained (it always rains here) we had a great turnout and managed to collect 3 full bags of garbage from around the small park.

The experience was lovely, we walked a joked in a group and discussed ways to make it more fun and appealing in future. We were privileged to have a visitor who was knowledgeable in fungi and had done several park cleanups themselves. They suggested that we link a learning walk with the nature clean up and try themes for the events.

After a couple years of working hard to get the right permits we finally, gave up, got out and just did the right thing. We had gloves, tongs and bags along with great attitudes.

Thank you to everyone who made it out, lets hope this is the first of many cleanups.

Blessed be.

Back to school

Summers get busy and it can be expensive when you have a family and you just want them to have fun. But harder still is Back to School.  Brand name clothing, the new hot trend in back packs and exhaustive lists from teachers can add up quickly.

The Grove of Nova Scotia Druids is always looking for way to help our community and with most of us being parents we know the stress back to school can bring. To that end we have banded together some funds and coordinated with a local food bank to help meet the needs of families in our area. 

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A big thanks to the Parker Street Food and Furniture Bank for their helpful information and guidance as we shopped for precious essentials.

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 On a more personal note: This was one of the first time I really sat down and explained why we donate to my 3-year-old. I know this lesson isn’t over and I am going to keep doing charitable things while involving him but I feel it is important to start explaining WHY at a young age. I am hoping that this will become normal and a way of life for him. I hope that showing him that some people don’t have access to the resources he has will help him to be more appreciative of those resources. Of all the aspirations I have for my child this has been something I have thought about since his conception.

I recall being young and in the Catholic Church where I knew exactly what to do but never why I was doing it. I did not understand the weight and symbolism of the faith and would blindly practice without emotion or sincerity. I was part of, what today would be considered a large family with 4 kids. It was all my parents could do to get us lined up; well dressed and to church without having the energy to really explain WHY. They were strongly devoted and though we all went though our baptisms and first communions none of the children have continued to practice as my parents did. It’s been my experience that if we want to show others the value in our actions and beliefs, they need to understand WHY things happen the way we do.

Brightest Blessings to you and yours and may your returns to the school year be seamless and full of smiles.